Life Values Assessment

  1. Family
  2. Loyalty
  3. Personal Development
  4. Wisdom
  5. Enjoyment
  6. Integrity
  7. Leadership
  8. Creativity
  9. Health
  10. Independence
  11. Friendship
  12. Personal Accomplishment
  13. Security
  14. Community
  15. Expertness
  16. Wealth
  17. Prestige
  18. Power
  19. Service
  20. Location

Today’s Activities:

Woke up, went downstairs to wake up my friend who was visiting from Portland: Loyalty, friendship, community, and service.

Drank a glass of orange juice: Enjoyment, and health.

Conference call for work: Personal development, wisdom, enjoyment, leadership, personal accomplishment, security, community, expertness, and service.

Called my dad and mom twice today: Family, loyalty, personal development, wisdom, enjoyment, and community.

Did homework: Personal development, wisdom, creativity, personal accomplishment, and expertness.

Played catch (baseball) with roommate: Family, personal development, enjoyment, friendship, and community.

Went to Chipotle for lunch: Enjoyment, health, friendship, and community.

Watched TV and the Red Sox/Yankee game: Personal development, wisdom, and enjoyment.

Did more homework: Personal development, wisdom, creativity, personal accomplishment, and expertness.

Reflection

Family is the most important value to me because I truly believe I am a product of my parents. They put so much time, effort, money, and love into creating the person I am today that I feel it is only right that I give back to them in every way I can. The least I can do is call them every day and spend some of my time to see how they are doing. My family extends to my best friends that I have a bound that stretches way beyond a friendship. Tying in with family is the value of loyalty, which means a deal to me. Loyalty is something that comes from my family and my upbringing as a child, which has resulted in me being very loyal to those that deserve it.

I’m pretty good at self-inventorying and thinking through what matters to me so there aren’t belief patterns that are no longer valid to me. The value of personal development, along with my other four top values, is something I demonstrate every day of my life. I always do something throughout the day that pushes me closer to my goals and dreams. Wisdom and enjoyment go hand in hand when considering furthering my growth as a person. I believe knowledge is power so gaining wisdom is very important to me. I also understand the power of enjoyment and enjoying life, because life can be hard so it is a necessity to have fun and laugh.

As for goals for myself, I don’t have any goals that I have yet to pursue because I’m actively pursing my goals everyday. There is nothing standing in my way because I have had life experiences that have taught me that life is too short to wait around for something to happen. If you want something bad enough, you have to go out and make it happen.

Discussion Post #1: Quarrelsomeness of Values

After reading our assigned reading, there was one question that stayed with me, which I would like to bring attention to. That question is: what factors create the incessant quarrelsomeness of human values? The opening paragraph explains how an objective observer would view the plant we live in, “by the unpredictability, the almost madcap complexity, and the incessant quarrelsomeness of human values” (Lewis 3). The constant quarrel of human values is particularly interesting to me, because it is so prominent in the world we live in today.

As the reading explains on page six, we all have different values and it can be difficult to define values in order to compare and contrast them. Different values cause humans to constantly decide between which value matters more to them, which contributes to the incessant quarrelsomeness of human values. For example, two of the values I posses are family and speaking my mind. These two values usually function well together, but there are times when I must decide which value matters more to me. If one of my family members does something that makes me upset I usually want to speak up and let them know how I feel. However, I must decide if speaking up is worth the potential argument that might occur.

Another cause for the quarrelsomeness of human values is the way we arrive at knowledge. The reading explains the most basic ways we come to know something, “In any case, it should become clear on reflection that there are very few interior mental modes through which we come to “believe” or “know” anything, indeed only four, and there may be summarized as follows: sense experience, deductive logic, emotion, and intuition” (Lewis 9). The reason these interior mental modes cause for quarrelsomeness is due to the fact that they can contradict each other. For example, my intuition could be telling me to eat the fourth piece of candy because I unconsciously want to, but my deductive logic could be telling me that since I already had three pieces, I might be better off not eating the fifth piece. This happens often given I enjoy candy, but I usually don’t get too crazy with it.

Lastly, I believe the constant growth of technology in the world causes humans to question, and even sometimes forget, their values. With the rise of social media and other technological devices, humans often compare themselves to others. This causes humans to change or forget who they are and what values they truly believe in. Too many of my friends are so concerned with the newest thing or mainstream media that it seems many of them have forgotten whom they are as a person in order to try and be something they are not. This is difficult to witness, but life is a learning process and I’m sure they will figure out their values as they grow up.

Lewis, H. (1990). A Question of Values: Six Ways We Make the Personal Choices That Shape Our Lives. Axios Press.