Entering a local Eugene bakery in a rush, she takes a quick look at the pastries. Nothing tempts her. She is short, her curly brown hair waves in the air. She takes a mug of coffee and joins the table. She is wearing an elegant long black coat with a beautiful red scarf that gives color to her overall black outfit. On her right shoulder is a pin representing Eeyore, the donkey in Winnie the Pooh. In the bakery full of North Westerners in their colourful but boxy rainjackets, her cosmopolitan look stands out..
“I am still not 100% American, and I can feel that,” she says. In fact, Barbara Walraet, 41, looks very French, which she is. Anyone who is interested in French culture in the Eugene area has probably met her. She teaches at The Little French School; she helped with the Roosevelt Middle School exchange trip to France last year; she is also involved in “Camp Rigolo”, a French immersion program at Fox Hollow elementary school.
“Education of the children is one of the most important things that the country needs,” she says. Walraet earned a Master’s Degree in Foreign Affairs and Languages as well as the equivalent of a Bachelor’s Degree in Education. She has been teaching in Eugene for the past eight years.
Walraet is also a backer and an entrepreneur. In 2009 she opened Caramel French Pâtisserie, the only patisserie in town owned by a French person. She cooks at home and delivers her creations, an arrangement that allows her to be close to her two teenage children.
“I want people to get to know French desserts,” she says, “what we eat through the seasons.” Walraet says that American desserts, with their unnecessary icing and bright decorations, are usually sweeter than French desserts. “If it’s tasty you don’t need to make it green or blue,” she says. In fact, if she was a dessert, Walraet would be a Raspberry Bavarois, because it’s simply “light and tasty”, you do not need to make it “pretty”.
Walraet’s patisserie includes a “dessert club.” Twice a month she delivers pastries to members. She redistributes 10 percent of her profits to the two schools she works with to help them avoidcutting hours of teaching. This is her way of supporting the schools and it is also her way of bringing together her passions, children and desserts.
While talking in the café, Walraet exudes “Frenchness”. Between sentences she sometimes inserts a “olala” or a “voilà”. When she talks in details about pastries with French names, she does not pronounce them in the American way, but in French. Occasionally she even blurts French sentences. “Un bon éclair à la vanille, c’est bon aussi, yes I love eclair,” she says.
She says that people often ask where she’s from. Laughing, she recalls the time she was talking in her store and a man said “You are not from here. Are you from Corvallis?”
Actually, Walraet grew up in Ardèche, the south east part of France, in a bilingual Dutch-French family. She studied English, German and Russian, and married a German man. After living in Eugene from 1995 to 1998, when her husband was at the University of Oregon; they moved back to Germany. In 2004 they returned toEugene, her husband became the director of the University of Oregon’s Zebrafish International Resource Center.
Walraet keeps herself busy. “I don’t sleep much,” she confessed. She continues to teach every morning. She says it’s not unusual to find her in her classroom on a Saturday morning preparing for the next week. Last year her assistant at the school called her “hyper” she says. Her director at The Little French School, Sara Bowmanhas told her more than once to “slow down,” but Walraet insists she needs to stay busy.
Last fall, when her plans to open a store front for her patisseriefell through, Walraet took a break from the Pâtisserie. “I wanted to know how much I miss it,” she says. The biggest challenge to opening a store was finances.She wouldn’t take the risk of loosing her house if the business did not work. “It was not a hard decision, because my family is really important,” she says.
“She is all about her family,” says Cindy Matherly, a long-time friend of Walraet. At home Walraet pushes her children to speak French with her. Even if they speak English at school, at home her kids speak German to their father and French to her.
“My heritage is important, it defines who you are, and I think it’s important to be able to pass it down,” she says, “even if it’s not easy.”
Walraet looks forward to spending good family time, either playingboard games or watching movies. She shares her heritage with her children by having them watch French movies on movie nights.
Caramel French Pâtisserie will re-open in April, but only for the farmer’s market and big events like Art and Vineyard. But Walraet has not given up on her dream to have a front store. “Even if it’s not today; tomorrow, maybe in the year, in a couple years. We’ll see, voilà!”
On this weekday afternoon the busy Walraet has to leave for a meeting. She stands up and goes for the door. She stops, looks at the coffee still left in her mug and turns around. “I should have taken a cup to go,” she tells me.
“How French of you,” I respond. We both laugh. Anyone who’s French knows that you can’t find cups to go in France.