He sees his kitchen as if it were an orchestra, dynamically conducting his multifaceted staff to create something beautiful. It is his passion; it is his life; it is his revitalization. Marshall Eck, Food Service Director at Eugene Mission, has spent the past year feeding and working alongside homeless members of Lane County as a way to help others who are struggling with the same bad decisions he once made, but will never make again.
He grew up in Blue River, Oregon, 35 miles outside of Springfield, “Where the men are men and so are the women,” Eck said, chuckling to himself. He fell in love with the food industry during his first job as a busboy at the age of 15. After graduating from high school, he spent two years at the Lane Community College Culinary School, but dropped out to manage Jack-In-The-Box restaurants. It was here where his life took an unfortunate turn. Marshall Eck became addicted to methamphetamine.
“I sold my relationships, my life, and my soul all for the use of a drug,” Eck said. “I was disgusted with my own life.”
For almost five years, he struggled with this addiction until one day he decided he’d had enough. Amidst another one of the numerous fights with his ex-wife, he stormed out of his house, got into his car and backed out into traffic, waiting for and praying that someone would hit him and take him out of his misery. When nothing happened, he drove for hours in circles until finally ending up at his father’s office. The minute his father opened the door, he started sobbing.
“I will never forget that day,” Eck said. “My dad said to me, ‘Let’s get this monkey off your back for good,’ and I stopped crying and looked up at him, and I was ready.”
From there, he began treatment and counseling at Serenity Lane and moved to Veneta after a couple of months where he worked in a restaurant called Daily Bread. It was there that he met and fell in love with his second wife. Two years later, they bought the restaurant from her parents and were the owners for several years. Eck said he enjoyed owning the restaurant, but it took away time he wanted to be spending with his three children.
“I only made it to 3 out of 38 of my son’s baseball games,” Eck said. “Missing out on those moments, was a dagger to my heart. I knew something needed to change.”
It wasn’t long after this realization that Eck received a phone call from his mother, the senior director of operations at Eugene Mission, informing him of a job opening they had for a food service director. He was put on a temporary trial period, because the hiring board didn’t want any nepotism, but eventually was selected for the job.
In June, it will have been a full year since he began his culinary work at Eugene Mission. The kitchen staff puts out roughly 15,000 meals a week to the residents of Eugene Mission. His 15 employees are homeless men and women that are a part of the Life Skills program, in which they dedicate a year of their lives to bettering themselves and prepare to immerse themselves back into the community.
“I always said that if I ever got out of that bad situation, if I could go back and help at least one person avoid making the same bad decisions I did, I would sign up for that,” Eck said.
When I asked him to describe himself, he said he thought he was fun, energetic, compassionate, a bit reckless, but a friend to all. One of the things he wishes he could change about himself is that he loves too easily. At first, he wasn’t sure he would be able to do the job because of that.
“The hardest thing about working here is seeing guys that you build a relationship with and love them dearly and watch them fail,” Eck said. “It’s hard to watch guys go through the program and then have to walk the plank and fall off again.”
This man is a compassionate, strange, complicated and interesting human being with an inspirational story that I would love to tell. He has had to overcome much, but now he is changing his life and the lives of the residents of Eugene Mission. Eck’s humorous, witty personality and openness about his past makes for a very compelling story.
Marshall Eck
Food Service Director: Eugene Mission
Work: 541-344-7523 ext. 113
Cell: 541-228-8033
marshalle@eugenemission.org
Eugene Mission helps feed, house, cloth, and rehabilitate the homeless in Lane County. They provide shelter and food as well as several rehabilitation programs that help get these people back on their feet and put them out in the community again.