Source: GoldieBlox video
I think this image says it all. This past week I read, “Why Toy Startup Goldie Historic $4 Million Super Bowl Ad Win Matter” It left me feeling compelled to write a post addressing this topic. I went to watch the Super Bowl commercial they were referring to and was left with a happy feeling of pride. It made me think about my personal experience of growing up female and how that affected my life.
My entire life I was raised by a single mother and I saw my dad every other weekend. Growing up I was exposed to a mother who supported herself and provided for her children’s every need. She never relied on a man for financial support. We were always expected to do things for ourselves.
My dad didn’t have any boys, so on our weekends together he would take us to do all of things he like to do. This included camping, hiking, softball, water sports, etc. My sister and I both played three sports all though our childhood. We liked doing those types of activities.
When I was younger it never occurred to me that those weren’t “girl” activities. I did notice that my interests allowed me to relate to boys better, but it never occurred to me that being a female held me back in life or was anything less than a man. That was until I started going to a new church after moving to Eugene. Men didn’t seem like they could be my friend because I was a female. I was also treated differently than the men who were serving with me.
For the first time I became conscious of the fact that I was looked at differently because I was a female. Before then I had never felt that I was any different from a man. I have been treated like I couldn’t do something before because I was a woman, but that always made me want to prove I could do it that much more.
This article really struck a chord with me. It made me think about experiences I have had and that even though in my home life I never felt that men were superior, the rest of the world sees it differently. After reading this article, it became clear to me that even though we aren’t aware of it, women are confined to specific gender roles and are often portrayed as a sex object or home-maker.
Executive Direct advocacy group Women in Media and News Jennifer Pozner stated, “The GoldieBlox ad that parodied ‘Girls’ went viral because it filled a need so many parents have for advertising toys in ways that encourage girls to think,” she said. “Toy ads typically teach girls that they should be shoppers, or sexy girlfriends, or caretakers (of pets, or babies, or dolls). And when it comes to girls’ toys themselves, they’re either hyper-sexual dolls like Bratz, or toy brooms and irons.”
“The colors, language, and tone of kids commercials are gender segregated and regressive: girls are sold pastels and pink, with sing-song dialog and fairy tale packaging, while commercials targeting boys feature dark blues, purples and blacks, with violent imagery and words like ‘Fight! Battle! Win! War!’ It’s that pervasive form of cultural conditioning that the GoldieBlox ad responded to.”
The reason that this Super Bowl ad was so powerful was because this topic isn’t widely talked about and is a persistent theme throughout our culture. We place gender identification on all sorts of items. We associate pink with women and blue with men. Society often portrays that all women like to do is shop, cook and clean. There is so much more to a woman than her ability to take care of a man or a house.
While finishing this blog I am left wondering how I would want this situation to be handled towards my daughter. I wouldn’t want her to be placed in the confinements of what her life should be like based on her gender. This is a theme in our culture that should be acknowledge as wrong and corrective actions should be taken moving forward. No body should feel limited in life because of which sex they were born as.