What questions or issues have intrigued you? What reactions have you had about readings, class discussions, and lectures? How do you approach to learning in this course? Is the class changing your sense of “linguistics” as a field? Is the class challenging you to change how you think or how you prepare (If so, can you describe the change?)
I thought our lecture about different parenting styles was especially intriguing. As an Asian-American who was raised in the United States, the different parenting styles between Asians and White-Americans has been a significant part of my life. Especially because I’ve lived away from home since I was 15 years old, with three separate White-American host families. I’ve been able to observe the cultural differences when it comes to raising kids, and it’s significantly informed my view of the world and how I would like to raise my kids.
After thinking deeply about this topic, I have found that the lecture in class about traditional Asian parents versus White-American families are quite accurate within my life experience. My family did emphasize education and independence and less about self-esteem. This manifested in extra tutoring and an emphasis on my problem solving ability in figuring out my own problems without intervention. Whether this be homework, laundry, or social development, my parents wanted me to figure it out myself in hopes of becoming independent. With the White-American families that I have lived with, all of them were more involved with my social life and encouraged socializing. Whether that be allowing me to stay out late, hosting parties, or asking about my personal social life, these families emphasized meeting new people and finding new experiences.
With my past experiences, learning about the observations of these cultural differences from academics and my classmates significantly educates me on this matter in a relative sense. How these differences affect others in their development and their views on life has helped keep me openminded about the pros and cons of both lifestyles that I have been a part of.
I think that these observations has elevated my self-awareness and education beyond linguistics in this class, and goes deeper into cultural differences that have been developed over thousands of years. I think at the end of the day, these help me understand the nuances in language at a deeper level and why cultures communicate differently.